The outcome of your entire life will be determined by whether you choose to be upset with yourself for the results of your decisions (retrospective focus), or grateful for the opportunity to implement what you’ve learned from the results of your decisions (prospective focus).
Which approach you choose is usually due to how you process – constructively or destructively.
Life is going to happen. It is your choice whether it happens TO you or happens FOR you. The goal is to develop a GROWTH mindset, loves. The past only exists as you allow it in your memory. What you actually have is the present and even if everything prior to right now has crumbled, in this moment it’s about building what’s next.