Sometimes you have to be mature enough emotionally to recognize the purpose behind the disappointment and pain you experience. Often, it’s meant to motivate you to distance yourself from people so that you can focus on SELF.
Discomfort is where we find the desire for change. If everyone did you right and made you comfortable, you’d never have a reason to withdraw. Think on that.
The universe (or God, spirit, whatever your belief is in) will always give you what you NEED… sometimes it’s a painful process, but don’t get lost in the pain. Pain is very often where you find your purpose because PAIN is what creates the need for relief – for healing. Be open to seeing it rather than spending your energy on things like blame, anger, resentment, and bitterness… Those things DO NOT serve you.